““It’s not the people who leave or die that suffer the worst,” he said to me. “It’s those who are left behind, those of us who are left with the memories of what we had and cannot ever again hold in our arms. The best thing we can do is hold them in our hearts. It’s the only way to move on, to live on. That is how we honor them. That is the only way to survive; with their memory in our hearts. Moving on doesn’t mean we forget them.””