Chain reactions Quote by Lewis B. Smedes
“The problem with revenge is that it never gets what it wants; it never evens the score. Fairness never comes. The chain reaction set off by every act of vengeance always takes its unhindered course. It ties both the injured and the injurer to an escalator of pain...Why do family feuds go on and on?...the reason is simple: no two people, no two families, ever weigh pain on the same scale.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Forgiveness, 1995
Revenge fails to restore balance and only spreads suffering, binding both parties to ongoing pain.
In simple terms: Revenge doesn’t bring fairness; it just continues hurt.
Key Takeaway
Avoid vengeance; seek reconciliation.
Themes
justice
revenge
pain
family
conflict
Mood
reflective
somber
Type
ethical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- family disputes
- legal retaliation
- personal grudges
- community mediation
Key Concepts
moral philosophy
psychology
social dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- Can forgiveness break the cycle of pain?
- What alternatives exist to retaliation?
A Different Perspective
Revenge may feel justified but often escalates harm.
