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Authenticity Quote by Leo Tolstoy

“A man could not be prevented from making himself a big wax doll, and kissing it. But if the man were to come with the doll and sit before a man in love, and begin caressing his doll as the lover caressed the woman he loved, it would be distasteful to the lover. Just such a distasteful sensation…” quote by Leo Tolstoy
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““A man could not be prevented from making himself a big wax doll, and kissing it. But if the man were to come with the doll and sit before a man in love, and begin caressing his doll as the lover caressed the woman he loved, it would be distasteful to the lover. Just such a distasteful sensation was what Mihailov felt at the sight of Vronsky’s painting: he felt it both ludicrous and irritating, both pitiable and offensive.””

Leo Tolstoy

About This Quote

Source Novel: Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy, 1877

The narrator describes a character’s disgust at seeing a lover’s affection transferred to an object, highlighting the clash between genuine emotion and artificial imitation.

In simple terms: Seeing love turned into a cheap imitation feels repulsive.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and value authentic emotional connections.

Themes

love authenticity disgust

Mood

disgusted contemplative

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • art criticism
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

objectification emotional projection artificiality

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does this reaction reveal about your own values?
  • How do we differentiate genuine love from mere performance?
A Different Perspective

The comparison may oversimplify complex feelings toward art.

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