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Fear Quote by Leila Slimani

“I remember that the first time I looked at my son, of course I felt love. But I think the first feeling was not love: it was fear. Someone is needing me. If something happens to him, what am I going to do? Maybe I won't survive if something happens to him? The fear was as big as the love.” quote by Leila Slimani
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“I remember that the first time I looked at my son, of course I felt love. But I think the first feeling was not love: it was fear. Someone is needing me. If something happens to him, what am I going to do? Maybe I won't survive if something happens to him? The fear was as big as the love.”

Leila Slimani

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Perfect Nanny, 2016

Parental love is intertwined with deep fear for a child's safety, revealing vulnerability and responsibility.

In simple terms: Love and fear coexist for a parent.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge and manage protective fear.

Themes

parenthood vulnerability responsibility

Mood

empathetic concerned

Type

reflective inspirational

When to use this quote

  • new parenthood
  • caregiving
  • risk assessment
  • mental health

Key Concepts

attachment theory emotional complexity protective instincts

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does fear shape your parenting choices?
  • What strategies help balance love and fear?
A Different Perspective

Fear may dominate and hinder bonding.

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