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Desired Quote by Leigh Bardugo

“The problem with wanting is that is makes us weak. How right he was. I'd wanted so badly to belong somewhere, anywhere. I'd been so eager to please him, so proud to keep his secrets. But I'd never bothered to question what he might really want, what his true motives might be. I'd been too busy…” quote by Leigh Bardugo
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““The problem with wanting is that is makes us weak. How right he was. I'd wanted so badly to belong somewhere, anywhere. I'd been so eager to please him, so proud to keep his secrets. But I'd never bothered to question what he might really want, what his true motives might be. I'd been too busy imagining myself by his side, the savior of Ravka, most treasured, most desired, like some kind of queen.””

Leigh Bardugo

About This Quote

Source Novel: *Six of Crows*, 2015

Desire for belonging can blind us to others’ motives, making us vulnerable.

In simple terms: Wanting acceptance can weaken judgment.

Key Takeaway

Question motives before devotion.

Themes

desire identity trust vulnerability

Mood

introspective melancholic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • friendships
  • romantic pursuits
  • political alliances

Key Concepts

psychology literature

Questions to Reflect On

  • What do you seek acceptance for?
  • How can you balance desire and self‑awareness?
A Different Perspective

Desire can also inspire positive growth.

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