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Bad girl Quote by Laurie Penny

“Men grow up expecting to be the hero of their own story. Women grow up expecting to be the supporting actress in somebody else's. As a kid growing up with books and films and stories instead of friends, that was always the narrative injustice that upset me more than anything else. I felt it…” quote by Laurie Penny
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““Men grow up expecting to be the hero of their own story. Women grow up expecting to be the supporting actress in somebody else's. As a kid growing up with books and films and stories instead of friends, that was always the narrative injustice that upset me more than anything else. I felt it sometimes like a sharp pain under the ribcage, the kind of chest pain that lasts for minutes and hours and might be nothing at all or might mean you're slowly dying of something mundane and awful. It's a feeling that hit when I understood how few girls got to go on adventures. I started reading science fiction and fantasy long before Harry Potter and The Hunger Games, before mainstream female leads very occasionally got more at the end of the story than together with the protagonist. Sure, there were tomboys and bad girls, but they were freaks and were usually killed off or married off quickly. Lady hobbits didn't bring the ring to Mordor. They stayed at home in the shire.””

Laurie Penny

About This Quote

Source Essay: “The Narrative Injustice of Gender Roles”, 2018

Societal stories often cast women as side characters, limiting their agency and adventure.

In simple terms: Stories often limit women’s roles.

Key Takeaway

Seek diverse narratives.

Themes

gender representation storytelling identity injustice

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

cultural inspirational

When to use this quote

  • education
  • media consumption
  • creative writing
  • parenting

Key Concepts

patriarchal narrative media influence

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can media promote balanced roles?
  • What stories challenge this pattern?
A Different Perspective

Changing narratives requires systemic change.

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