Sexual Quote by Lauren Beukes
““You'd think I would know better than to get involved with someone in my own department. But I'm really crap at resisting sexual tension. Oh, it's entertaining for a few weeks, the fuzzy sting that rushes down your vertebra to your groin when the eyes meet, the banter spiked with innuendo - then it becomes irritating, and you need to get it out of your system. Neutralize it by indulging it, which is fine, assuming you can both keep it tidy.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Shining Girls by Lauren Beukes, 2013
The speaker acknowledges the temptation of workplace romance, describing its initial excitement and eventual irritation, and suggests managing it by briefly indulging while maintaining boundaries.
In simple terms: Workplace attraction can be thrilling but becomes problematic if not controlled.
Allow brief release, then re‑establish professional distance.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- office relationships
- team meetings
- conflict resolution
- HR policies
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you recognize when attraction becomes harmful?
- What policies help keep professional interactions healthy?
Indulging may blur lines and lead to gossip or harassment claims.