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Feelings Quote by Lauren Beukes

“She's even been practicing making out with the back of her hand. Which was about as effective as tickling yourself. It's why you needed other fingers, other tongues. Only other people can make you feel real.” quote by Lauren Beukes
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““She's even been practicing making out with the back of her hand. Which was about as effective as tickling yourself. It's why you needed other fingers, other tongues. Only other people can make you feel real.””

Lauren Beukes

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Shining Girls by Lauren Beukes, 2013

The quote highlights how genuine connection requires another person’s unique presence; self‑pleasure cannot replicate the depth of feeling provided by another.

In simple terms: Real intimacy needs another person, not just yourself.

Key Takeaway

Seek authentic connections with others.

Themes

intimacy connection authenticity

Mood

reflective melancholic introspective

Type

philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendship
  • emotional healing
  • self‑exploration

Key Concepts

human experience psychology relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does “real” feeling mean to you?
  • How can you foster deeper connections beyond surface interactions?
A Different Perspective

Self‑pleasure may feel safe but lacks the depth of shared experience.

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