Feelings Quote by Lauren Beukes
““She's even been practicing making out with the back of her hand. Which was about as effective as tickling yourself. It's why you needed other fingers, other tongues. Only other people can make you feel real.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Shining Girls by Lauren Beukes, 2013
The quote highlights how genuine connection requires another person’s unique presence; self‑pleasure cannot replicate the depth of feeling provided by another.
In simple terms: Real intimacy needs another person, not just yourself.
Seek authentic connections with others.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- emotional healing
- self‑exploration
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does “real” feeling mean to you?
- How can you foster deeper connections beyond surface interactions?
Self‑pleasure may feel safe but lacks the depth of shared experience.