Bite Quote by Laurann Dohner
““Species tend to bite sometimes during the sharing of sex but we never break the skin. There are only two ways this usually happens. I had to bite you to assert my control if we fought for dominance during sex or because I wanted to mark you to show other males you belonged to me.” He blinked. “I am sorry. I lost control and I wanted to completely own you in that moment. I wanted all of you.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: “The Dark Side of Desire” podcast, 2023
The speaker describes sexual aggression as a way to assert dominance and ownership, linking biting to control and marking behavior.
In simple terms: Biting in sex is used to dominate and claim ownership.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and reject coercive control in intimacy.
Themes
power
control
sexual aggression
boundaries
Mood
disturbing
reflective
Type
warning
psychological
When to use this quote
- consensual relationships
- sexual health education
- therapy sessions
- legal contexts
Key Concepts
dominance
ownership
marking
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- How does power manifest in intimate moments?
- What safeguards can prevent coercive behavior?
A Different Perspective
Consent and mutual respect are essential; aggression cannot be justified.
