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Dbt Quote by Lane Pederson

“Emotions are not good, bad, right, or wrong. The first step to changing our relationship to feelings is to be curious about them and the messages they send to us.” quote by Lane Pederson
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““Emotions are not good, bad, right, or wrong. The first step to changing our relationship to feelings is to be curious about them and the messages they send to us.””

Lane Pederson

About This Quote

Source Interview: Podcast “The Psychology of Emotions”, 2023

Emotions are neutral data; curiosity about them reveals their informational value and helps reshape our responses.

In simple terms: Feelings are neutral; be curious about them.

Key Takeaway

Observe feelings without judgment.

Themes

self-awareness emotional intelligence growth mindfulness

Mood

reflective calm

Type

advisory inspirational

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • conflict resolution
  • personal development
  • team leadership

Key Concepts

cognitive reframing psychology neuroscience

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you practice curiosity when emotions feel overwhelming?
  • What messages might your recurring feelings be signaling?
A Different Perspective

Curiosity alone may not resolve deep trauma without professional help.

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