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“You were just babies then!", she said. "What?" I said. "You were just babies in the war - like the ones upstairs!" I nodded that this was true. We had been foolish virgins in the war, right at the end of childhood. "But you're not going to write it that way, are you." This wasn't a question. It…” quote by Kurt Vonnegut
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““You were just babies then!", she said. "What?" I said. "You were just babies in the war - like the ones upstairs!" I nodded that this was true. We had been foolish virgins in the war, right at the end of childhood. "But you're not going to write it that way, are you." This wasn't a question. It was an accusation. "I-I don't know", I said. "Well, I know," she said. "You'll pretend you were men instead of babies, and you'll be played in the movies by Frank Sinatra and John Wayne or some of those other glamorous, war-loving, dirty old men. And war will look just wonderful, so we'll have a lot more of them. And they'll be fought by babies like the babies upstairs." So then I understood. It was war that made her so angry. She didn't want her babies or anybody else's babies killed in wars. And she thought wars were partly encouraged by books and movies. So I held up my right hand and I made her a promise: "Mary," I said, "I don't think this book of mine will ever be finished. I must have written five thousand pages by now, and thrown them all away. If I ever do finish it, though, I give you my word of honor: there won't be a part for Frank Sinatra or John Wayne. "I tell you what," I said, "I'll call it 'The Children's Crusade.'" She was my friend after that.””

Kurt Vonnegut

About This Quote

Source Novel: Slaughterhouse-Five, Kurt Vonnegut, 1969

The speaker condemns romanticizing war, insisting that war destroys innocence and is perpetuated by glorifying media.

In simple terms: War is glorified, but it's actually cruel and kills children.

Key Takeaway

Reject glorified war narratives.

Themes

war innocence media influence memory promise

Mood

reflective determined critical

Type

literary philosophical personal

When to use this quote

  • writing a novel
  • discussing war with friends
  • rejecting Hollywood portrayals
  • making personal vows

Key Concepts

anti‑war sentiment nostalgia cultural critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do media representations shape our view of war?
  • Can personal vows influence societal attitudes?
A Different Perspective

The speaker’s personal promise may not change broader cultural narratives.

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