Accepting Quote by Kurt Vonnegut
“Billy had a framed prayer on his office wall which expressed his method for keeping going, even though he was unenthusiastic about living. A lot of patients who saw the prayer on Billy’s wall told him that it helped them to keep going, too. It went like this: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom always to tell the difference.” Among the things Billy Pilgrim could not change were the past, the present, and the future.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut, 1969
A prayer for serenity, courage, and wisdom to distinguish what can be changed from what cannot.
In simple terms: Seek peace, act wisely, know limits.
Accept what you cannot change, act on what you can.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- personal crises
- grief counseling
- career setbacks
- health challenges
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What can you change today?
- How do you know the difference?
May overlook the complexity of change and oversimplify emotional struggles.