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“Billy had a framed prayer on his office wall which expressed his method for keeping going, even though he was unenthusiastic about living. A lot of patients who saw the prayer on Billy’s wall told him that it helped them to keep going, too. It went like this: “God grant me the serenity to accept…” quote by Kurt Vonnegut
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“Billy had a framed prayer on his office wall which expressed his method for keeping going, even though he was unenthusiastic about living. A lot of patients who saw the prayer on Billy’s wall told him that it helped them to keep going, too. It went like this: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom always to tell the difference.” Among the things Billy Pilgrim could not change were the past, the present, and the future.”

Kurt Vonnegut

About This Quote

Source Novel: Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut, 1969

A prayer for serenity, courage, and wisdom to distinguish what can be changed from what cannot.

In simple terms: Seek peace, act wisely, know limits.

Key Takeaway

Accept what you cannot change, act on what you can.

Themes

serenity courage wisdom acceptance action

Mood

reflective calming inspirational

Type

philosophical motivational

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • personal crises
  • grief counseling
  • career setbacks
  • health challenges

Key Concepts

Stoicism psychology self‑help

Questions to Reflect On

  • What can you change today?
  • How do you know the difference?
A Different Perspective

May overlook the complexity of change and oversimplify emotional struggles.

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