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“It's not reasonable to love people who are only going to die," she said. Nash thought about that for a moment, stroking Small's neck with great deliberation, as if the fate of the Dells depended on that smooth, careful movement. "I have two responses to that," he said finally. "First, everyone's…” quote by Kristin Cashore
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““It's not reasonable to love people who are only going to die," she said. Nash thought about that for a moment, stroking Small's neck with great deliberation, as if the fate of the Dells depended on that smooth, careful movement. "I have two responses to that," he said finally. "First, everyone's going to die. Second, love is stupid. It has nothing to do with reason. You love whomever you love. Against all reasons I loved my father." He looked at her keenly. "Did you love yours?" "Yes," she whispered. He stroked Small's nose. "I love you," he said, "even knowing you'll never have me. And I love my brother, more than I ever realized before you came along. You can't help whom you love, Lady. Nor can you know what it's liable to cause you to do." She made a connection then. Surprised she sat back from him and studied his face, soft with shadows and light. She saw a part of him she hadn't seen before. "You came to me for lessons to guard your mind," she said, "and you stopped asking me to marry you, both at the same time. You did those things out of love for your brother." "Well" he said, looking a bit sheepishly at the floor. "I also took a few swings at him, but that's neither here nor there." "You're good at love," she said simply, because it seemed to her that it was true. "I'm not so good at love. I'm like a barbed creature. I push everyone I love away." He shrugged. "I don't mind you pushing me away if it means you love me, little sister.””

Kristin Cashore

About This Quote

Source Novel: Graceling, 2008

Love is irrational, beyond reason, and persists despite inevitable loss; it compels actions beyond logic.

In simple terms: Love defies logic.

Key Takeaway

Accept love’s irrationality.

Themes

love death irrationality family choice

Mood

intense conflicted

Type

dramatic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • grieving
  • conflict resolution
  • family dynamics
  • ethical dilemmas
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

Existentialism emotional sacrifice

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can love be both selfless and self‑destructive?
  • What boundaries should guide love?
A Different Perspective

Love may lead to harmful decisions if unchecked.

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