Careful Quote by Kory Stamper
“I certainly self-police my language depending on who I'm talking to. I try to be very careful about using filler words, about not drawling certain vowels, even when I can't say "drawl" without drawling. That's kind of sad, because self-policing inhibits communication. You're more focused on the words coming out of your mouth or that should not be coming out of your mouth than making a connection with the person you're speaking to.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Language and Editing Podcast, 2022
The speaker notes that constantly monitoring speech for correctness can hinder genuine connection, as the focus shifts from meaning to form.
In simple terms: Over‑monitoring speech blocks real communication.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize connection over perfection.
Themes
communication
self‑awareness
language
authenticity
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
cautious
Type
advice
observational
personal.
When to use this quote
- interpersonal conversations
- public speaking
- language teaching
- networking events
Key Concepts
speech monitoring
social anxiety
lingal flexibility
Questions to Reflect On
- How does self‑censorship affect your relationships?
- Can you balance clarity with authenticity?
A Different Perspective
Over‑editing may cause anxiety and reduce spontaneity.
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