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Lying Quote by Kim Holden

“I’m good,” I lie. I’ve learned that lying when my well-being is concerned is easier than trying to navigate the truth. Nobody wants to hear, I’m not good. That just makes everything uncomfortable and then the fact that I’m not good would need to be addressed or ignored. Either option makes people…” quote by Kim Holden
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““I’m good,” I lie. I’ve learned that lying when my well-being is concerned is easier than trying to navigate the truth. Nobody wants to hear, I’m not good. That just makes everything uncomfortable and then the fact that I’m not good would need to be addressed or ignored. Either option makes people squirm, so I lie. I’m good.””

Kim Holden

About This Quote

The speaker admits to masking personal distress with a false claim of well‑being because confronting the truth feels uncomfortable and socially burdensome.

In simple terms: Self‑deception to avoid discomfort.

Key Takeaway

Denial eases immediate social tension.

Themes

self‑image social conformity emotional avoidance vulnerability coping mechanisms

Mood

anxious reflective candid

Type

personal confession social observation

When to use this quote

  • confiding in friends
  • seeking professional help
  • workplace stress
  • family gatherings
  • online social media

Key Concepts

authenticity stigma communication mental health

Practical Applications

  • therapy counseling
  • peer support groups

Questions to Reflect On

  • What would change if I allowed myself to be honest about my state?
  • How does my avoidance affect those around me?
A Different Perspective

Honesty may provoke empathy and support, while lying can erode trust over time.

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