Dreamer Quote by Kij Johnson
““But he had loved her, or thought he did, and that had brought her, sputtering and gasping, above the surface of his self-regard. The dreamer’s sheen and the power of his passion had for a time attracted her, but in the end she had not wanted a life spent treading water in his story.””
About This Quote
Source Short story: “The Dreamer’s Sheen”, 2018
Passion can attract, but if it’s self‑absorbed, it may trap the beloved in a shallow existence.
In simple terms: Love may be alluring yet confining when driven by ego.
Key Takeaway
Seek relationships that empower, not imprison.
Themes
love
ego
self‑worth
Mood
thoughtful
melancholic
Type
literary
psychological
When to use this quote
- romantic partnerships
- friendships
- creative collaborations
Key Concepts
self‑absorption
authenticity
personal growth
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you feel your love is uplifting?
- How can you balance passion with autonomy?
A Different Perspective
Ego‑driven love can become suffocating.
