Being nice Quote by Kelley Armstrong
“But was it wrong to put yourself first? That’s called survival, right? If you’re running for your life, you don’t get the luxury of being nice. They were going to learn that. It’s fine to wave the pompoms for teamwork—all for one and one for all—but when push came to shove, these guys wouldn’t be risking their lives for Chloe, maybe not even for each other. I was sure of it. Once things got worse, it would be every kid for himself. It always is.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Darkest Powers, 2010
Survival instincts can override altruism, leading people to prioritize self‑preservation over group loyalty.
In simple terms: Self‑preservation can trump teamwork.
Recognize when survival motives dominate.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- emergency response
- competitive sports
- business negotiations
- survival training
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you placed self‑preservation above group needs?
- How can teams balance individual safety with collective goals?
Self‑interest may erode trust and cooperation.