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Children Quote by Karen Maezen Miller

“I am talking about something more than just the gauzy circle of life. Sure, you're older now and one day you're going to die, but before that, you have to *die*. Your child has arrived and the battle has been joined. It is the battle to the death of your ego. The demise of your selfishness and…” quote by Karen Maezen Miller
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““I am talking about something more than just the gauzy circle of life. Sure, you're older now and one day you're going to die, but before that, you have to *die*. Your child has arrived and the battle has been joined. It is the battle to the death of your ego. The demise of your selfishness and impatience. The end of your idle distractions and carelessness. The decline and fall of Numero Uno. Or so you must pray, because in this contest, you must lose or lose quickly. Pray that you will never bear the shattered consequences of winning when your child's safety, trust, and happiness are the casualties.””

Karen Maezen Miller

About This Quote

Parenthood demands ego death, self‑lessness, and sacrifice, prioritizing child’s safety over personal ego.

In simple terms: Parenthood requires self‑sacrifice.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize child’s wellbeing over ego.

Themes

parenthood ego selflessness sacrifice life lessons

Mood

reflective determined

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • personal development
  • spiritual practice

Key Concepts

identity shift responsibility emotional growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you maintain self‑identity as a parent?
  • What boundaries protect your wellbeing?
A Different Perspective

Balancing self‑care with sacrifice is tough.

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