Behavior Quote by June Jordan
“The purpose of polite behavior is never virtuous. Deceit, surrender, and concealment these are not virtues. The goal of the mannerly is comfort, per se.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: On Politeness, 1970
Polite behavior serves comfort, not moral virtue; deception and concealment are not virtuous.
In simple terms: Politeness is about comfort, not ethics.
Key Takeaway
Distinguish courtesy from genuine moral action.
Themes
politeness
ethics
comfort
social norms
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
ethical
social
When to use this quote
- customer service
- diplomacy
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
virtue ethics
social psychology
authenticity
Questions to Reflect On
- When does politeness become complicity?
- Can honesty be polite?
A Different Perspective
Politeness can mask unethical behavior.
