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“Jessica Lahey, teacher, writer for The Atlantic and New York Times, and author of The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed,18 has observed the phenomenon of overparenting in her classroom and written extensively about it.” quote by Julie Lythcott-Haims
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““Jessica Lahey, teacher, writer for The Atlantic and New York Times, and author of The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed,18 has observed the phenomenon of overparenting in her classroom and written extensively about it.””

Julie Lythcott-Haims

About This Quote

Source Book: The Gift of Failure by Jessica Lahey, 2015

Overparenting limits children’s ability to develop resilience and self‑direction, as parents intervene excessively in every challenge.

In simple terms: Too much parental control hinders growth.

Key Takeaway

Allow children to face manageable failures.

Themes

parenting resilience independence

Mood

concerned reflective

Type

advice educational

When to use this quote

  • school projects
  • sports teams
  • learning new skills
  • career decisions

Key Concepts

psychology development autonomy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you balance support with independence?
  • What risks does over‑protecting pose?
A Different Perspective

Children may feel unsafe without guidance.

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