Attitudes Quote by Julian Barnes
““Studies of cancer patients show that attitudes of mind have very little effect on clinical outcome. We may say we are fighting cancer, but cancer is merely fighting us; we may think we have beaten it, when it has only gone away to regroup. It is all just the universe doing its stuff, and we are the stuff it is being done to. And so, perhaps, with grief. We imagine we have battled against it, been purposeful, overcome sorrow, scrubbed the rust from our soul, when all that has happened is that grief has moved elsewhere, shifted its interest.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Sense of an Ending by Julian Barnes, 2011
Attitudes have minimal impact on disease; outcomes are largely beyond personal control, and grief similarly shifts rather than resolves.
In simple terms: Mindset barely changes health; grief moves on.
Accept limits, focus on present actions.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- cancer treatment
- palliative care
- grief counseling
- personal health decisions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance acceptance with proactive care?
- Can recognizing limits improve emotional resilience?
Medical outcomes are influenced by many factors beyond mindset.