Help others Quote by Julian Barnes
““Some admit the damage, and try to mitigate it; some spend their lives trying to help others who are damaged; and then there are those whose main concern is to avoid further damage to themselves, at whatever cost. And those are the ones who are ruthless, and the ones to be careful of.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Sense of an Ending, Julian Barnes, 2011
People either cause damage, help the damaged, or protect themselves at any cost, often becoming ruthless.
In simple terms: Self‑preservation can lead to ruthlessness.
Beware of extreme self‑protection.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- career choices
- social activism
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When does protecting yourself become harmful?
- How can you balance self‑care with empathy?
Self‑preservation may ignore others' needs, causing harm.