Born Quote by Judith Martin
“We are born charming fresh and spontaneous and must be civilized before we are fit to participate in society.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The House That Cleaned Itself by Judith Martin, 1995
We are naturally lively and must be refined to function in society.
In simple terms: Natural spontaneity needs refinement for social participation.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate manners while preserving authenticity.
Themes
socialization
refinement
authenticity
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- school
- workplace
- family gatherings
Key Concepts
cultural norms
personal development
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance natural spontaneity with social expectations?
- What aspects of refinement feel most restrictive?
![“I'm often asked, "What is your favorite moment during the 30 years you hosted [The Tonight Show]?" I really don't have just one. The times I enjoyed the most were the spontaneous, unplanned segments that just happened, like Ed Ames' infamous "Tomahawk Toss" that produced one of the longest laughs…” quote by Johnny Carson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/5e3/johnny-carson-2644_enjoy_i-m-often-asked-what-is-your-favorite-mo_40090.jpg)
