Ankles Quote by Judith Martin
“She only maintains that it is possible, under some circumstances, for a lady to murder her husband; but that a woman who wears ankle-strap shoes and smokes on the street corner, though she may be a joy to all who know her and have devoted her life to charity, could never qualify as a lady.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Etiquette Book by Judith Martin, 1993
She argues that true ladyhood is defined by moral character, not superficial traits like fashion or habits.
In simple terms: Being a lady is about inner virtue, not outward appearance.
Key Takeaway
Focus on character over appearance.
Themes
character
morality
gender roles
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
analytical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- charitable work
- personal reputation
- fashion choices
Key Concepts
feminism
social expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- What defines true respectability?
- How do societal expectations shape gender identity?
A Different Perspective
Superficial markers can mislead judgments about worth.
