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“How long were you standing there?" "Long enough to know you will be leaving soon. I thought I should speak to you. I didn't think you would come to tell me. Would you have?" "No. I wouldn't have expected you to care. You followed me?" "Like a lovesick swain. Wherever you go, there am I. Haven't…” quote by Judith James
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““How long were you standing there?" "Long enough to know you will be leaving soon. I thought I should speak to you. I didn't think you would come to tell me. Would you have?" "No. I wouldn't have expected you to care. You followed me?" "Like a lovesick swain. Wherever you go, there am I. Haven't you noticed these past weeks?" "I have seen you drinking and mocking with your jaded friends and your latest paramour on your arms. Or is it still Castlemaine? Have you no self-respect?" "No. None." He shrugged. "Love is war, and feigned disinterest my armor. You wear yours too, love. It is sad I know.””

Judith James

About This Quote

Source Dialogue: Unknown literary work

Explores longing, miscommunication, and the paradox of emotional armor

In simple terms: Love can be both a battlefield and a shield

Key Takeaway

Recognize and articulate hidden feelings

Themes

love communication vulnerability

Mood

melancholic intense

Type

literary dramatic

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • personal introspection
  • relationship counseling

Key Concepts

emotional armor unrequited affection self‑esteem

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does the “armor” of love protect and conceal?
  • How can honest dialogue replace feigned disinterest?
A Different Perspective

May romanticize conflict and overlook healthy boundaries

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