Skip to content

Absurd Quote by Joyce Carol Oates

“She thought that this man was her savior, that he had come to her at a time in her life when her life demanded completion, an end, a permanent fixing of all that was troubled and shifting and deadly. And yet it was absurd to think this. No person could save another. So she drew back from him and…” quote by Joyce Carol Oates
Download Open image
“She thought that this man was her savior, that he had come to her at a time in her life when her life demanded completion, an end, a permanent fixing of all that was troubled and shifting and deadly. And yet it was absurd to think this. No person could save another. So she drew back from him and released him.”

Joyce Carol Oates

About This Quote

Source Novel: “The Accursed” (1999)

She realizes salvation cannot be given by another; she must release her expectations.

In simple terms: No one can save another; she lets go.

Key Takeaway

Accept personal responsibility for healing.

Themes

self-reliance illusion growth

Mood

melancholic hopeful

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • grief counseling
  • relationship endings
  • self-help

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What expectations are you holding onto?
  • How can you foster self-compassion?
A Different Perspective

May underestimate the need for mutual support.

2.6 out of 5 (8 ratings)

More by Joyce Carol Oates

Explore all 658 Joyce Carol Oates quotes

More Absurd quotes

Browse all 1,644 Absurd quotes