some memories, too, might better be forgotten. didn't…
““some memories, too, might better be forgotten. didn't Obasan once say, "it is better to forget"? what purpose is served by hauling forth the jar of inedible food? if it is not seen, it does not horrify. what is past recall is past pain.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Obasan, Joy Kogawa, 1981
Some memories are so painful that forgetting them can be a protective act; confronting them may revive trauma rather than heal.
In simple terms: Forgetting painful memories can protect us from pain.
Key Takeaway
Allow yourself to let go of harmful recollections.
Themes
memory
trauma
healing
Mood
somber
reflective
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- historical reflection
- family discussions
- personal journaling
- cultural education
Key Concepts
psychology
cultural repression
Questions to Reflect On
- What memories do you choose to forget and why?
- How might confronting them change your present?
A Different Perspective
Suppressing memory can prevent processing and integration, leading to unresolved issues.