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Angle Quote by Jostein Gaarder

“You can never know if a person forgives you when you wrong them. Therefore it is existentially important to you. It is a question you are intensely concerned with. Neither can you know whether a person loves you. It’s something you just have to believe or hope. But these things are more important…” quote by Jostein Gaarder
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“You can never know if a person forgives you when you wrong them. Therefore it is existentially important to you. It is a question you are intensely concerned with. Neither can you know whether a person loves you. It’s something you just have to believe or hope. But these things are more important to you than the fact that the sum of the angles in a triangle is 180 degrees. You don't think about the law of cause and effect or about modes of perception when you are in the middle of your first kiss.”

Jostein Gaarder

About This Quote

Source Novel: Sophie's World, Jostein Gaarder, 1991

Love and forgiveness are unknowable, yet vital; they matter more than abstract truths like geometry during intimate moments.

In simple terms: Love and forgiveness matter more than facts when you’re emotionally involved.

Key Takeaway

Trust and hope in relationships despite uncertainty.

Themes

love forgiveness uncertainty human experience emotion

Mood

empathetic philosophical introspective

Type

existential inspirational

When to use this quote

  • first romantic encounter
  • conflict resolution
  • personal introspection
  • relationship counseling

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do we navigate relationships without certainty?
  • What role does hope play in emotional intimacy?
A Different Perspective

Relying on hope can lead to disappointment if expectations aren’t met.

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