Grief Quote by John Verdon
““...but grief, he'd discovered, was not an experience you went through once and then 'moved on' (as the idiotic popular phrase would have it). The truth was that it came over you in successive waves - waves separated by periods of numbness, periods of forgetfulness, periods of ordinary living.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Forgotten Garden, 2012
Grief is not a single event but a series of recurring waves interspersed with numbness and normal life.
In simple terms: Grief comes in repeated waves, not just once.
Allow space for recurring grief.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counseling sessions
- support groups
- personal journaling
- mindful breathing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What coping strategies help during grief waves?
- How can you support someone experiencing recurring grief?
Some may feel grief should end quickly, ignoring its cyclical nature.