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“If men do not keep on speaking terms with children, they cease to be men, and become merely machines for eating and for earning money.” quote by John Updike
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“If men do not keep on speaking terms with children, they cease to be men, and become merely machines for eating and for earning money.”

John Updike

About This Quote

Source Novel: In the Beauty of the Lilies, 1996

Neglecting communication with children reduces men to mere laborers, stripping them of relational humanity.

In simple terms: Without child communication, men become only workers.

Key Takeaway

Maintain open dialogue with children.

Themes

family communication masculinity relationships humanity

Mood

contemplative serious

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • work‑life balance
  • elder care
  • education settings

Key Concepts

sociology developmental psychology gender roles

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can busy parents foster deeper connections?
  • What impact does this have on future generations?
A Different Perspective

Societal pressures may limit time for meaningful talks.

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