Child Quote by John Updike
“Having children is something we think we ought to do because our parents did it, but when it is over the children are just other members of the human race, rather disappointingly.”
About This Quote
Source Short story: “The Birthplace of the Dead” by John Updike, 1975
We often follow parental expectations without questioning their relevance, only to realize each child is an individual, not a continuation of tradition.
In simple terms: Parents' expectations can clash with children's individuality.
Key Takeaway
Question assumptions about family duty.
Themes
family
expectations
individuality
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
critical
When to use this quote
- parenting decisions
- career choices
- cultural traditions
Key Concepts
existentialism
social conditioning
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you follow traditions blindly?
- How can you honor both heritage and individuality?
A Different Perspective
Assuming duty may ignore personal autonomy.
