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Greatness Quote by John Updike

“A healthy male adult bore consumes each year one and a half times his own weight in other people's patience.” quote by John Updike
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“A healthy male adult bore consumes each year one and a half times his own weight in other people's patience.”

John Updike

About This Quote

Source Novel: Rabbit, Run, 1960

A man’s demands drain others’ patience, illustrating the cost of selfish consumption.

In simple terms: Selfishness drains patience.

Key Takeaway

Mind your impact on others.

Themes

selfishness social dynamics patience

Mood

critical reflective

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • workplace
  • friendships

Key Concepts

psychology ethics interpersonal relations

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your behavior affect others’ patience?
  • What can you do to reduce your consumption of others’ goodwill?
A Different Perspective

Patience is finite and can be replenished.

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