Culture Quote by John Ortberg
“The human longings that are deep inside of us never go away. They exist across cultures; they exist throughout life. When people were first made, our deepest longing was to know and be known. And after the Fall, when we all got weird, it's still our deepest longing - but it's now also our deepest fear.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Life You've Always Wanted by John Ortberg, 2008
Humans have an enduring desire to be understood and to understand others, a need that persists across cultures and life stages, yet it also creates fear of rejection.
In simple terms: We long to be known and to know others, which can also cause fear.
Key Takeaway
Embrace vulnerability and seek authentic connections.
Themes
identity
connection
fear
longing
culture
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
inspirational
philosophical
When to use this quote
- relationships
- therapy
- team building
- cross‑cultural communication
- personal growth
Key Concepts
existential
psychology
spirituality
Questions to Reflect On
- What relationships do you avoid out of fear?
- How can you safely share your true self?
A Different Perspective
Fear can lead to avoidance, limiting deep connections.
