Contagious Quote by John Ortberg
“In a contagious world,we learn to keep our distance. If we get too close to those who are suffering, we might get infected by their pain. It may not be convenient or comfortable. But only when you get close enough to catch their hurt will they be close enough to catch your love.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Life Changing Power of Love, 2015
Empathy requires closeness to others' suffering, risking emotional infection, but that proximity also allows love to be shared.
In simple terms: Getting close to pain lets love be exchanged.
Key Takeaway
Balance compassion with self‑care to avoid burnout.
Themes
empathy
compassion
boundaries
love
pain
Mood
thoughtful
cautious
empathetic
Type
advice
philosophical
reflective
When to use this quote
- counseling
- friendship
- family support
- community service
- personal growth
Key Concepts
emotional contagion
ethical caregiving
relational dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- When does empathy become harmful?
- How can you protect yourself while caring?
A Different Perspective
Close proximity can overwhelm and hinder objectivity; boundaries are essential.
