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Growth mindset Quote by John Medina

“What to say instead: “You really worked hard” What should Ethan’s parents have done? Research reveals a simple solution. Rather than praising him for being smart, they should have praised him for working hard. On the successful completion of a test, they should not have said, “I’m so proud of you…” quote by John Medina
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““What to say instead: “You really worked hard” What should Ethan’s parents have done? Research reveals a simple solution. Rather than praising him for being smart, they should have praised him for working hard. On the successful completion of a test, they should not have said, “I’m so proud of you. You’re such a bright kid.” That appeals to a fixed, uncontrollable intellectual trait. It’s called “fixed mindset” praise. His parents should have said, “I’m so proud of you. You must have studied a lot.” This appeals to controllable effort. It’s called “growth mindset” praise.””

John Medina

About This Quote

Source Book: Brain Rules for Baby, John Medina, 2014

Praise effort rather than innate ability to foster a growth mindset and resilience.

In simple terms: Praise effort, not talent.

Key Takeaway

Encourage effort‑focused feedback.

Themes

education psychology mindset parenting

Mood

encouraging insightful

Type

educational psychological

When to use this quote

  • school
  • homework
  • sports
  • creative projects

Key Concepts

growth mindset fixed mindset praise strategies

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we balance effort praise with realistic expectations?
  • What role does intrinsic motivation play?
A Different Perspective

Overemphasis on effort may cause burnout.

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