Children Quote by John Holt
““For a very long time, ever since men formed societies in which some people bossed others, children have fulfilled this very important function. Every adult parent, however lowly or powerless, had at least some one that he could command, threaten, and punish. No man was so poor, even a slave, that he could not have these few slaves of his own. Today, when most “free” men feel like slaves, having their own homegrown slaves is very satisfying. Many could not do without them.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Role of Children in Hierarchies” by John Holt, 1975
Children historically serve as subordinate figures, providing a sense of control for adults, especially when broader freedoms feel limited.
In simple terms: Adults find satisfaction in having people they can dominate.
Key Takeaway
Recognize the desire for control and its ethical implications.
Themes
power
control
hierarchy
Mood
critical
thoughtful
Type
sociological
ethical
When to use this quote
- parenting
- workplace
- political movements
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
social dynamics
psychology
ethics
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do people seek dominance over others?
- How can societies reduce the need for personal hierarchies?
A Different Perspective
Such dynamics can perpetuate abuse and inequality.
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