Fall apart Quote by John Green
““The Buddha said that suffering was caused by desire, we'd learned, and that the cessation of desire meant the cessation of suffering. When you stopped wishing things wouldn't fall apart, you'd stop suffering when they did.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Fault in Our Stars, 2012
Desire fuels suffering; letting go of expectations eases pain when things go wrong.
In simple terms: Wanting less reduces suffering.
Practice acceptance.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- health setbacks
- career challenges
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What desires cause you most distress?
- Can you find peace without eliminating desire?
Complete cessation of desire may be unrealistic.