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Apology Quote by John Cassian

“We are often indifferent to our brethren who are distressed or upset, on the grounds that they are in this state through no fault of ours. The Doctor of souls, however, wishing to root out the soul's excuses from the heart, tells us to leave our gift and to be reconciled not only if we happen to…” quote by John Cassian
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“We are often indifferent to our brethren who are distressed or upset, on the grounds that they are in this state through no fault of ours. The Doctor of souls, however, wishing to root out the soul's excuses from the heart, tells us to leave our gift and to be reconciled not only if we happen to be upset by our brother, but also if he is upset by us, whether justly or unjustly; only when we have healed the breach through our apology should we offer our gift.”

John Cassian

About This Quote

Source Spiritual Treatise: The Institutes, Book 2, 5th century

We must offer forgiveness and reconciliation even when hurt is unjust, healing relationships through sincere apology.

In simple terms: Apologize and reconcile, even if blamed unfairly.

Key Takeaway

Seek forgiveness and heal bonds.

Themes

forgiveness empathy relationships

Mood

thoughtful empathetic

Type

spiritual ethical

When to use this quote

  • family conflict
  • workplace disputes
  • friendship rifts
  • community tensions

Key Concepts

moral responsibility spiritual growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • What steps can you take to sincerely apologize?
  • How do you handle unreciprocated forgiveness?
A Different Perspective

Apology may not be accepted or may be insincere.

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