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“The bottom line in managing your emotions is that you should put others – not yourself – first in how you handle and process them. Whether you delay or display your emotions should not be for your own gratification. You should ask yourself, What does the team need? Not, What will make me feel…” quote by John C. Maxwell
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“The bottom line in managing your emotions is that you should put others – not yourself – first in how you handle and process them. Whether you delay or display your emotions should not be for your own gratification. You should ask yourself, What does the team need? Not, What will make me feel better?”

John C. Maxwell

About This Quote

Source Book: “The 5 Levels of Leadership”, 2011

Effective emotional management prioritizes team needs over personal gratification, aligning actions with collective goals.

In simple terms: Put team before self.

Key Takeaway

Serve others to lead effectively.

Themes

leadership emotions teamwork

Mood

empathetic inspirational

Type

leadership motivational

When to use this quote

  • team meetings
  • conflict resolution
  • coaching sessions

Key Concepts

service emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance self‑care?
  • What signals indicate team needs?
A Different Perspective

Self‑neglect can cause burnout.

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