Ask yourself Quote by John C. Maxwell
“The bottom line in managing your emotions is that you should put others – not yourself – first in how you handle and process them. Whether you delay or display your emotions should not be for your own gratification. You should ask yourself, What does the team need? Not, What will make me feel better?”
About This Quote
Source Book: “The 5 Levels of Leadership”, 2011
Effective emotional management prioritizes team needs over personal gratification, aligning actions with collective goals.
In simple terms: Put team before self.
Serve others to lead effectively.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- team meetings
- conflict resolution
- coaching sessions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance self‑care?
- What signals indicate team needs?
Self‑neglect can cause burnout.