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“A relationship does not start the day two people meet; it starts in the childhood of each partner. For it is long before they meet that the template of their relationship is established.” quote by John Armstrong
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““A relationship does not start the day two people meet; it starts in the childhood of each partner. For it is long before they meet that the template of their relationship is established.””

John Armstrong

About This Quote

Source Book: The Art of Relationships by John Armstrong, 2015

Relationships form based on early life experiences, shaping expectations before partners even meet.

In simple terms: Early experiences shape relationship expectations.

Key Takeaway

Reflect on your childhood templates.

Themes

psychology relationships development

Mood

reflective insightful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • marriage counseling
  • friendship building
  • parenting
  • team dynamics

Key Concepts

Attachment theory inner child schemas

Questions to Reflect On

  • How did your childhood shape your view of partnership?
  • Can you change a template formed early?
A Different Perspective

Not all relationships follow this pattern; cultural factors can alter templates.

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