Children Quote by Jodi Picoult
““It was a hairline crack, one might never have noticed, except for the fact it grew wider and wider, until there was a canyon between them. A child's job, ostensibly, was to grow up. So why, when it happened, did a parent feel so disappointed?””
About This Quote
Source Novel: My Sister's Keeper by Jodi Picoult, 2004
A small, unnoticed flaw can expand into a deep divide, causing parental disappointment when a child matures unexpectedly.
In simple terms: Minor issues can become major gaps, leading to disappointment.
Key Takeaway
Accept growth and adjust expectations.
Themes
family
growth
disappointment
Mood
reflective
somber
Type
narrative
emotional
When to use this quote
- parenting
- adolescent development
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
psychology
developmental change
Questions to Reflect On
- How do we recognize and address growing gaps?
- What expectations are realistic for children?
A Different Perspective
Disappointment may stem from unrealistic expectations.
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