Psychology Quote by Joanna Trollope
““She’s made up her mind about missing him, like she’s made up her mind about giving up her course. She won’t let herself despair about things she can’t have, and doesn’t waste her energies longing for things like I do. She thinks before she feels, Ma, you know she does. I expect she does sort of miss Ed, in her way.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “The Girl Who Came Home”, 1995
She chooses to accept loss rather than waste energy on unattainable desires, prioritizing rational thought over emotional longing.
In simple terms: Accept loss, avoid futile longing.
Key Takeaway
Choose acceptance over endless yearning.
Themes
acceptance
rationality
grief
self‑control
love
Mood
thoughtful
melancholic
Type
literary
conversational
When to use this quote
- breakups
- unrequited love
- personal setbacks
- career choices
Key Concepts
psychology
emotional intelligence
decision making
Questions to Reflect On
- What does it mean to think before feeling?
- When is it healthy to let go?
A Different Perspective
Denial can also protect fragile emotions.
