Control ourselves Quote by Joan D. Chittister
“Getting to know ourselves and learning to control ourselves are the two great tasks of life. Don't make up strange and exotic 'penances.' Simply say no to yourself once a day, and you will be on the road to sanctity for the rest of your life.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Wisdom of the Desert by Joan D. Chittister, 1998
Self‑knowledge and self‑discipline are essential life tasks; avoiding unnecessary self‑punishment leads toward lasting holiness.
In simple terms: Know and control yourself, avoid needless self‑penalties.
Practice daily self‑restraint.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- spiritual practice
- daily habits
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance self‑discipline with self‑compassion?
- What habits help you say “no” constructively?
Self‑control alone cannot solve deeper psychological issues.