Accepted Quote by Jim Costa
“When you're in a broken family and your role model is a violent male, boys grow up believing that's the way they're supposed to act. And girls think that's an accepted way men will treat them.”
About This Quote
The quote highlights how exposure to violence in family role models shapes gendered expectations and behavior.
In simple terms: Violent family role models teach boys and girls harmful gender norms.
Recognize and break harmful cycles.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parenting
- education
- therapy
- community programs
- policy reform
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we provide alternative role models?
- What interventions can shift these gender expectations?
Changing deep‑seated beliefs is difficult and requires sustained effort.