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“When you're in a broken family and your role model is a violent male, boys grow up believing that's the way they're supposed to act. And girls think that's an accepted way men will treat them.” quote by Jim Costa
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“When you're in a broken family and your role model is a violent male, boys grow up believing that's the way they're supposed to act. And girls think that's an accepted way men will treat them.”

Jim Costa

About This Quote

The quote highlights how exposure to violence in family role models shapes gendered expectations and behavior.

In simple terms: Violent family role models teach boys and girls harmful gender norms.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and break harmful cycles.

Themes

family dynamics gender roles violence socialization

Mood

sad reflective

Type

social educational

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • education
  • therapy
  • community programs
  • policy reform

Key Concepts

psychology toxic masculinity gender conditioning

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we provide alternative role models?
  • What interventions can shift these gender expectations?
A Different Perspective

Changing deep‑seated beliefs is difficult and requires sustained effort.

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