Comfort Quote by Jiddu Krishnamurti
“If we depend for our happiness on another, on society or on environment, they become essential to us; we cling to them, and any alteration of these we violently oppose because we depend upon them for our psychological security and comfort.”
About This Quote
Source Lecture: The Nature of Freedom, 1960s
Happiness tied to external things makes us cling and resist change, threatening psychological security.
In simple terms: Relying on others for joy creates fear of loss.
Key Takeaway
Seek inner stability, not external dependence.
Themes
psychology
security
dependence
change
freedom
Mood
reflective
serious
Type
philosophical
motivational
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- environmental policy
- workplace culture
- mental health counseling
Key Concepts
attachment
psychological safety
autonomy
Questions to Reflect On
- What would you lose if you let go of this dependence?
- How can you cultivate inner security?
A Different Perspective
External dependence can also provide necessary support and community.
