Dependence Quote by Jiddu Krishnamurti
“For most of us, relationship with another is based on dependence, either economic or psychological. This dependence creates fear, breeds in us possessiveness, results in friction, suspicion, frustration.”
About This Quote
He observes that relationships based on economic or psychological dependence breed fear, possessiveness, and conflict.
In simple terms: Dependence creates fear and conflict.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate independence in relationships.
Themes
relationships
dependence
fear
possessiveness
conflict
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- marriage
- friendships
- workplace dynamics
- family ties
- financial partnerships
Key Concepts
psychology
attachment theory
freedom
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we balance interdependence and autonomy?
- What practices reduce possessiveness?
A Different Perspective
Independence may be unrealistic for some.
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