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Parenting Quote by Jenny Han

“The promises you make on your mother’s deathbed are promises that are absolute; they’re titanium. There’s no way you’re breaking them. I promised my mother that I would take care of my brother. That I would look after him. I kept my word. I did it the best way I could. By leaving.” quote by Jenny Han
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““The promises you make on your mother’s deathbed are promises that are absolute; they’re titanium. There’s no way you’re breaking them. I promised my mother that I would take care of my brother. That I would look after him. I kept my word. I did it the best way I could. By leaving.””

Jenny Han

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Summer I Turned Pretty, 2010

Family obligations create unbreakable promises; honoring them may require personal sacrifice and difficult choices.

In simple terms: Family promises are binding.

Key Takeaway

Honor commitments, even if painful.

Themes

family duty promise sacrifice loyalty

Mood

somber determined

Type

narrative emotional

When to use this quote

  • caring for a sibling
  • making tough decisions
  • grieving a parent

Key Concepts

ethical duty emotional conflict legacy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance personal needs with family vows?
  • What limits should be set on self‑sacrifice?
A Different Perspective

Promises can conflict with personal well‑being.

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