Psychology Quote by Jennifer L. Hart
““Even I wouldn’t persecute a man for the notions churning through his mind so long as he extends me the same courtesy. Thoughts I can forgive, as we are unable to control them. Words are different, just like actions, and those he can control.””
About This Quote
We should tolerate thoughts beyond cannot be controlled, but hold people accountable for their words and actions.
In simple terms: Thoughts are forgivable; words and deeds are not.
Judge actions, not thoughts.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace
- online discussions
- education
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you distinguish between internal thoughts and external expressions?
- When is it appropriate to intervene?
People may misuse “thoughts” to excuse harmful speech.