Skip to content

Family Quote by Jeffrey Eugenides

“Remember that day you said you loved me? Remember that? See, you could do that because you're basically a sane person, who grew up in a loving, sane family. You could take a risk like that. But in my family we didn't go around saying we loved each other. We went around screaming at each other. So…” quote by Jeffrey Eugenides
Download Open image
“Remember that day you said you loved me? Remember that? See, you could do that because you're basically a sane person, who grew up in a loving, sane family. You could take a risk like that. But in my family we didn't go around saying we loved each other. We went around screaming at each other. So what do I do, when you say you love me? I go and undermine it.”

Jeffrey Eugenides

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Marriage Plot, 2011

Love is expressed differently across families, affecting how we receive affection.

In simple terms: Family dynamics shape love expression.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and adapt to family love styles.

Themes

family love communication

Mood

introspective empathetic

Type

philosophical therapeutic

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • therapy sessions
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

emotional conditioning relationship patterns psychological safety

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your family show love?
  • Can you redefine love expression in your family?
A Different Perspective

Not all families can change deep-rooted patterns easily.

4.0 out of 5 (6 ratings)

More by Jeffrey Eugenides

Explore all 516 Jeffrey Eugenides quotes

More Family quotes

Browse all 36,931 Family quotes