Being yourself Quote by Jeanette Winterson
“Loneliness isn't about being by yourself. That's fine, right and good, desirable in many ways. Loneliness is about finding a landing-place, or not, and knowing that, whatever you do, you can go back there. The opposite of loneliness isn't company, it's return. A place to return.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Written on the Body, Jeanette Winterson, 1992
Loneliness is the lack of a trusted place to return to, not merely being alone.
In simple terms: Loneliness is missing a safe home, not just being alone.
Key Takeaway
Seek or create a reliable place of belonging.
Themes
loneliness
belonging
identity
relationships
Mood
reflective
hopeful
introspective
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- moving to a new city
- starting a new job
- after a breakup
- during grief
Key Concepts
attachment theory
existentialism
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- What place do you consider your safe return?
- How can you cultivate a sense of belonging?
A Different Perspective
Loneliness can also stem from internal barriers, not just external absence.
